| DESPAIR:
a condition where palliative doses of hope can no longer be retained |
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Despair is the residual state of paralysis which results
when the last membrane of delusion has been fractured.
Any attempted administrations of hope are immediately lost
thru the ruptures of the fragile pellicle that
had served as insulation against the fiats of a
cosmic malevolence.
As the possibilities of self-motivation and action are constrained,
either by actual physical circumstances or by perceptual self-limitation,
increasing quantities of hope for a desired outcome
fail to alleviate the symptoms of frustration and
injustice.
Indifferent reality gradually dissolves the
thin barrier of delusion.
Despair finally presents when it is recognized that
a hoped for change to nature's unfairness is finally
beyond expectation.
The loved one is dead and will not ever return.
The medical condition is incurable and will take its course.
The prison is impregnable and freedom will never be experienced again.
Despair is a penultimate resentful exhaustion with the
unfavourable vicissitudes of a chaotic existence.
What had been sustained as a realistic possibility,
in spite of continuing evidence to the contrary,
is finally recognised as illusory.
Miracles of any sort, especially those
enacted to correct seemingly unjust
personal circumstances, are nothing but fabulous fantasy.
If self effort remains absent or imprisoned, and no
social assistance is
requested or available, despair has nowhere to go but to the abyss.
As it drifts towards the edge it mutates into an indifferent
fatalism that finally abandons life's contingencies
for the resignation of death.
Whilst death removes the condition, there are at least three
other methods of delaying the inevitable confrontation with the void.
Firstly, it is often possible to have the rupture in the delusion
membrane repaired and so enable different forms
of hope to be retained.
Many religions have departments set up
specifically to offer this service.
Secondly, the individuals themselves can often revise their attitudes about
the nature of existence and abandon pointless expectations that
life could ever somehow be fair.
Happiness is still possible from the
perspective of a pragmatic fatalism.
Thirdly, other altruistic individuals
can direct whatever resources
they have available to ameliorate the adverse circumstances of the
afflicted and attempt to try and compensate for the ruthless
uncertainties of living.
A secular
viewpoint is just as capable of
comforting the bereaved, supporting the dying and freeing the
unfairly incarcerated as any other.